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A new turn!
It is often said
that 'attitude is everything' but over time we begin to understand that
attitude isn't actually everything as it cannot substitute for some few things
in our life like talent, competence, experience, facts, and personal growth.
Let us consider what attitudes really means which is an "inward feeling
expressed by outward behavior", that is no matter how you try to fake your
personality, whom you really are would be exposed sooner or later. Attitude
couldn't be seen as everything but as 'one thing that makes the difference’ and
most often it could be as genuine as the 'conscience works'. The moment we
begin to realize what influences our attitude the better the chance for us to
take a new turn and there by living above our emotions.
Since our attitude
is of the mind and our emotions on the other hand runs like water in our body
or are much like waves, we can’t stop them from coming but we can choose which
one to surf (Jonatan Mortenson); which makes it more liable for those with
weak will to give in to anything they feel within. Most often what we feel
within is not what we NEED and thus we must always check weigh the action sides
to the motives, even when it seems you are back there, you don’t give up. So we
can often treat people with the respect deserving each person. The mind is the
seat of our attitude as it is in the bible "as a man thinketh in his heart
so is he...” we must therefore endeavor to change our thinking for a new
attitude to surface. To help us change our thinking for a changed attitude, we
must be conscious of what gets our 'ear time' and 'eye time' as they most often
determine how we think.
Knowledge sometimes
might be the deferring factor to many people view on success and thus has made
them conclude that there is an easy path to succeed. The current Nigeria system
is one that is continuously impasse yearly; even as corruption is the trend of
so many people in all sectors of the country. The truth however doesn't waver
that hard work is the key for true success and not stingy gains. What needs to
be understood is that every man action is a ripple effect and what you send out
is who you are; commonly said that what goes round will turn around. Man must
begin to understand how to live real and not artificially, expecting all things
to come easy to us is fake. A new turn in our way of thinking to help change
our approach to life challenges; even as we incubate in us the right ATTITUDE.
A-Action Oriented.
T-Take Responsibility.
T-Turn Fears
into power.
I-Improve continuously.
T-Transform –VEs into +VEs.
U-Uncover Your Hidden Talents.
D-Develop Yourself.
E-Excel in everything you do.
Be more to be of
more value, don't try to change the world when you have not changed your world
and always remember that "the farther you see is the limit you create for
yourself and the better you become the best you can be". Be yourself' is
actually absurd; Why be yourself when you can be a better you through imitating
the right people..." Live beyond your limitations and stand to imitate
good people, because "imitation vast originality" Take that new turn
and remember that it is easier to maintain the right attitude than regain it.
By
Akindolire
folarin
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